"Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us."

Thursday, February 17, 2011

What the Europeans Know About Toilet Hygiene That Americans Don't

To most continental Europeans, not having a bidet in their bathroom is unthinkable and even considered uncivilized. Maybe it’s time Americans put all this behind and concentrated on ways to promote the best hygiene in their bathrooms.

attached toilet bidet

Here are some other potential reasons why Americans (and others) may not use a bidet in their bathrooms…

Too expensive…

Takes up too much space and difficult to install…

Impractical to use for both bowel and genital hygiene

Bidets have been around for over 250 years offering excellent personal hygiene. And the last 50 years have seen a revolution in their form and function.

So, why don’t bidets grace more American bathrooms?


This is a bit perplexing. But it may have something to do with simple social denial.

For people suffering from different kinds of bowel conditions, a bidet can also potentially offer some relief… by allowing you to avoid irritating toilet paper. Here are a few examples…

Crohn’s

Ulcerative colitis

Constipation

Hemorrhoids

Diarrhea

A bidet can potentially provide some relief from these conditions by helping you avoid the use of toilet paper.

If you ever been to any Asian country, you will find yourself with a useful bidet - a pipe hose attached in every bathroom.

Safe money, safe trees, be hygiene , practical and yet environmental friendly

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Hold me, Thrill me, Kiss me


Steve D, I Love you and remember we dance through this song on our anniversary years!
Have faith in me dear!




Monday, February 14, 2011

I have lost my fellow blogger


I have lost my fellow blogger! oh dear Mikey wher are u guys!

The owner of kierankingdom.blogspot.com and http://soitsgettingbetter.blogspot.com/please please please update.

We missed your post.

I am hopping to hear a news from you guys soon.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

will you take it now?



Hubby I love you so much! I know i am not perfect but i am learning and willing to change for new me!

forgive me

PS I LOVE YOU



Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Call Back Home!

I am going back New York! alone ...huuhuhuhu

Meeting and meeting and work! for ONE WEEK!


and i wish i could post like the above! hahahha but i don't have that body build! awwwww
way toooo skinny! i have lost 5 kgs recently, down to 55kgs!

any advice!

Sunday, January 30, 2011

Food of Thoughts


I remember my Mom told me long ago, before she perish!

Watch your thoughts, for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. (and the rest...bla2)

For I have a major concern with my food intake. I was ever since a Vegetarian since year 2004. After I have graduated with PhD and heart problem.duh! (getting better nowadays)

and i am ardent to Almond, baked Almond is my favorite, with honey! yum yum yum! (No salt Please)

I have them for my hubby and my little one as well! FORCE em rather! hehehehe

So eat more Almond dearest reader, it cuts your cholesterol, good for your arteries and sexual too!

I have these baked yesterday! for my dear hubby

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Good Offer ++ Bad ?

Last week, I was offered a double position in Federal Reserve, imagine double position or dual job description. I say i will think about it, i personally have a bad feeling that people in the Administration of Federal Reserve (or USA in general) are not yet ready with GAY thing or GAY Leadership! Too bad.

Another job offer came from my working visit to Singapore, high rank position, CED (Chief Executive Director), and i say NO, simple and easy, with no reasons whatsoever. Being gay and openly married with a guy is not a plus point if you are working in Asia Country. duh!

So i am gonna stay with ECB for some reasons (Not only for good dough the pay me!).My mere perception (correct me if i am wrong) European Union (EU) are more acceptive to our kind; and people judge you based on your quality that you may produce, despite your Religions, Belief, Language, Race, Skin Color and Sexual Preferences.

I have known many fellow Americans whom holding PR in EU countries. They stay put for the same reasons, The Quality Living!

For this current time, my workload has been lowered down so i could have focus on my Dear Hubby in Berlin. I was given a permission to work from Berlin until my Dear Hubby is fit enough! after his chemotherapy and stem cell operations. I am blessed for such understanding i have had from my Directors.

The little one is gonna stay with her Grandma for time being, i cannot juggle with my work and my dear hubby and a daughter. I will be totally stress out!

So here i am! this is what i am looking at and working with...