the shoe whore awards

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The other day, i was chatting with Paul J (Platinum Egoistic) in Yahoo Messenger. We chat about a whole lot of things, from our life down to fashion. I don't know but it seems that fashion has always been the major issues discuss among gays community.

i practically wear nothing- lets show some skin...dare u!

Set for examples, if you are meeting your friends at Starbucks or Dome in Bukit Bintang area (or anywhere), the first things you will clings about are "how hideous is that lady attire!", very wrong mix and match, gosh that is totally auntie, the shoe, the shirt, the everything will goes wrong from the gay eyes!

isn't it outrages that God somehow gives us such creativity over hetero's !!!

i am the shoe whore since i was very young...
Confession of Paul J!hehehh

and talking about fashion! what i wanted to do today is to tag a few friends from blog-sphere, to dare you guys @ gays to reveal how many shoe do you actually have in your possession. Ok! the set of rules apply are as follows:


1. Say big thank you to the one whom tagging with these Awards! (remember to hyperlink them!) Be Creatives dear!

I say thank you my darling for initiate this idea. hey i don't have many shoes ok....(i only have a few)

matilah lucah...

2. Please paste the following graphic onto your blog, so people know you are nominated for the shoe whore awards

euwww... so gay

3. Proceed with how many shoes in your belonging, the description of the damages (prices), maybe tell us why you bought that shoes? and if possible the pictures (it can be taken from internet resources too)

ok! the truth is, i do not know that i have more shoes then my partner... let see

a. Definitely i have Prada Shoes, I've got 2 (two)band loafer eventually errrr. never ever thought that i have 2 Prada. ok the damages is about $700usd each.

Why i bought these ,definitely the comfort and i can simply wear it in no time.

Picture...ok

b. I fancy hiroshi-tsubouchi custom loafer. It made for comfort and i have my size 13.5inch
Ok! damages around..let not reveal here. i can afford to have one.


c. Italian leather shoes. I have one of those, specially tailor made for me and only me. It took me 3 month before i received the shoes from this old shoemaker from Toscana.
The total damages including special delivery was 1K Euro. Thank you
Sorry got no pic- the shoes is in the safe place back in NY.

similar color scheme

d. My fav shoes of all. Timberland Boat shoe. Robust , big and comfy. Damages less than $50usd.

e. Hermès shoes with buckle. Aged golden leather. Made in Italy. Damages about $500Euro


4. Later on, nominate another THREE blogger for these awards...

I would like to nominate the following blogger

first - will be Paul J from Platinum Egoistic

second would be - Nik-the Greek from My bizarre world

and the last one would be - Jerry Kiat from JerryKiat

5. and Please, Leave a comment on each of the blogs letting them know they have been nominated.

ok ok would do it lol now!

The house was quiet and the world was calm.

The house was quiet and the world was calm.
The reader became the book; and summer night

Was like the conscious being of the book.
The house was quiet and the world was calm.

The words were spoken as if there was no book,
Except that the reader leaned above the page,

Wanted to lean, wanted much to be
The scholar to whom his book is true, to whom

The summer night is like a perfection of thought.
The house was quiet because it had to be.

The quiet was part of the meaning, part of the mind:
The access of perfection to the page.

And the world was calm. The truth in a calm world,
In which there is no other meaning, itself

Is calm, itself is summer and night, itself
Is the reader leaning late and reading there.

Wallace Stevens
(1879 - 1955 / Pennsylvania / United States)

How am i doing in Malaysia? 2

Available in Malay Edition only.

Marilah sayang2 semua, mek nak buat aksi acrobatic

boleh temanya *matilah kaki tidur*

Wah best nyer hidup, semenjak kami pindah ke rumah di balik pulau, seronok rasanya, puas hati mek! yang mengemas semuanya laki mek, kita kan orang dapur. ehem2

janganlah snap gambar i kat dapur
i malu!!! bley

so, petang tadi steve ajak pergi jalan jalan Georgetown dan ke batu feringgi. Asyik terperuk dengan internet marahnyer. Kata Cuti cuti malaysia! bila lagi...

So jalan lah bandar Georgetown, yang mek pun ingat2 lupa, jumpa hameediah dekat penang street, makan nasi kandar. Siap bungkus kari dan kurma lagi laki aku tu..

nalla rekek

lepas tu mula lah acara finger licking good, wahh, cute sangat tengok cik abang jilat jari, ada snap2 gambar, tak kan mek nak tayang kat sini. nak bunuh diri...

wah acara buka baju & jilat2 jari... ko ado!

Lepas tu mengadu panas, sudahlah penang ni tak hujan lebih dari sebulan,uhmm makan lagi kari tak hengat. so kami pandulah ke batu feringgi. kononnya nak duduk2 sambil post2 manja minum air kelapa muda. wah mek suka gituh.

sedap sangat-
yang ada kat NY tu entah zaman batu punya kot!!!

So sambil minum air kelapa, jalan jalan tepi pantai dengan si kecik tu tak hengat berlari sana sini, main air laut bagai "its fun dada", katanyer pada steve. jalan punya jalan punya jalan...

chantik nyer pantai kita!!!

tetiba ternampaklah paus mana tah terdampar di sisi pantai, si kecik tu mulut tak reti jaga, dada i saw awful thing, siap tunjuk kami paus terdampar itew...

ko boleh paus ni yang terdampar *matila ayahanda katanyer*

kami punyalah gelak, terbarai burai isi perut...wwakakakak.

Cerita punya cerita, kat sinilah bila tahun terjadi tsunami, risau juga kan mek sambil jalan2 ni tetiba wah tsunami cammana, amalan tak cukup, dosa banyak lagi, heheheh biasalah dok risau yang bukan2!!! kalah orang putih ok!

Steve tak suka mek dok ingat macam itu, kata dia as long as we pray to Allah, ask for his forgiveness and somehow repent and we obliged to His messages through Prophet, surely He will accept it. Although, all of us are sinner, we should acknowledge it to Him for forgiveness. wah semenjak laki mek tamat kursus fardu ain di NY, hidupnyer berseri saja. kowserkan statement.

mek lah itew *matila cik bedah*

oklah nanti siaran bersambung lagi, tak larat dah, lagi mau tidur ada...

Soul Train - Aint No Sunshine.

In response to our dear friend Micky, the owner of the prominent gay blogs. I dedicated this song to him and his partner.

Ain't no sunshine when she's gone.
It's not warm when she's away.
Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
and she's always gone too long
anytime she goes away.

Wonder this time where she's gone,
wonder if she's gone to stay
Ain't no sunshine when she's gone
and this house just ain't no home
anytime she goes away.

And I know, I know, I know, I know, I know,
I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know,
I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know,
I know, I know, I know, I know, I know, I know,
I know, I know, I know

Hey, I ought to leave the young thing alone,
but ain't no sunshine when she's gone,
ain't no sunshine when she's gone,
only darkness everyday.
Ain't no sunshine when she's gone,
and this house just ain't no home
anytime she goes away.
Anytime she goes away.
Anytime she goes away.
Anytime she goes away.
Anytime she goes away.

p/s I thought we have lose you from our quaint blog.

Kreativ Blogger Award

its me, oh fuck i win...

Everybody say
Thank you Nik-The Greek for the nomination.



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this is not the logos....




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Nik_TheGreek

Now to be honest with you folks on Name 7 things about yourself that people might find interesting.

I am married to a guy younger than me (steve 29 & me 32) for SEVEN years. Love you darling! We have adopt a baby girl name Sophie. She is 3 and half now.

I have decided to take a break from my profession as a university teacher, and put my feet off for a while.

I am self confess GOOD cooks. wakakaka

I enjoy downloading Gay Porn and Movies from the net. and you know what we will do with it. Ohh you nasty reader...

geek and nerd
we are different

I have PhD in Computer Engineering & Mathematics from Columbia Uni., 2 Master in Business Administration and Finance from INSEAD, Education (Mathematics) Uni of London and 1 Bachelor Degree double Major in Mathematics and Computing from Uni of Cambridge. However, my English is totally SUCKS according to my Professor, both writing and speaking,i am NOT GOOD in languages. Do i care?Not famous during my high schools and college and university years.

i am complex person, outwardly assertive, logical, skeptical and focused, and express genuine sympathy for others.

5th episode -Gay Finances in a str8 world: How Checking Receipts Can Save Money

From time to time, things get the best of me and I let various forms of paperwork pile up, putting off today what I can do tomorrow. I become the Bizzaro Ben Franklin. This pile can end up filling a paper box or two before I tackle it.

ooo squeeze me tit, you nasty ben!

This pile continues to grow larger until I eventually force myself to go through it for an hour or more on a weekend. Recently I completed such a task and found, to my horror, I missed a number of money saving opportunities while discovering ones I still could take advantage.

ahhhhhhhhh! i forget my undergarment !!
ahhhhh i'm running naked all over Manhattan

My first find was a Chili’s receipt. I found I could have completed an online survey for a chance to win $1000. Unfortunately, you had to do this within two days of receiving the receipt. While disappointed, I only missed a chance to win.

oh my godX3 i forget the fucking survey!
idiot!!how could u,

Next was an insert in my electric bill. I can sign up for automatic billing and get a $10 credit. This was a limited time offer. This was from a bill 2 months ago, which I paid, but never looked at the insert. Unfortunately, the offer expired.

Last was a TGI Friday’s receipt. I could have taken their survey for a $4 off coupon, but again, I missed the time limit.

So now that I have eliminated my pile and am still motivated to change my ways, what can I start doing?

hello! didn't i told you what to do...syial

Put the receipts in my wallet. The cashiers usually ask if I want the receipt with me or in the bag. I usually take a few seconds to answer before opting for the bag. These receipts are usually found when we unload the bags, which is not always right when we get home, and placed in the “the pile” to deal with later.

Take care of all paperwork daily. This may seem extreme for me, but I think it is best. If I find this is too big a step, I can pick one day a week to go through paperwork. This is still a better alternative to my sometimes-once-a-month routine.

Take time to read everything. In the case of restaurant receipts, I throw a lot of them away, so who knows how many opportunities I have lost here. As for bills and the ads that accompany them, I know most are crap, but sometimes there are money saving opportunities.

miaww, i am so lazy bitch ....

Wikipedia tells me procrastination has more to do with anxiety than laziness, which makes sense to me. I hate doing bills and paperwork. I would rather be doing something, anything, else. But I definitely don’t want to lose out on any savings either, so I think I’ll end it here and get started before another pile begins.

in case you are so lazy..
uihh i like it so kinky..yummy

How am i doing in Malaysia?

Wah! Mek telah selamat kembali ke Malaysia, seadanyer nyeh! So off my English tongue, dinch perlu itew semua, mek suker kerana mek bley menulis persis kepondanan (wah direct translation for queer katanyer) yang sejati.

mek siap pakai tudung bagai, bley!!!

Yelah bukan kah kechantikan itew hak milik setiap insan *matilah perasaan bagai* macam menang award plak lagaknyer *lihatlah donia* ala2 akaq azean plak dengan rambut kembang itew.

Adalah kawan mek inie jumpa mek di hotel mek menginap sekarang, katanya "Uihhh janganlah cakap bahasa ponen! i maluu"

nak ambik, deep-trot sampai tercekek!!!bley

Eh eh eh, ko nak malu aper nyer, dah ko isap kote laki ko kat rumah, dalam bas express, toilet tu tak payah katalah, segala nala taman bunga ko projek, tak der plak ko malu kan, kan kan kan!

wah belum 2-3 hari kat malaysia dah panas dibuatnyer mek! bley.* statement hanjeng*

panazs tak?

Aktiviti mek sepanjang seminggu berada di KL inie, makan2, lawat keluarga2, sahabat handai (tak ramai pun, adalah secupak dua yg bleh dibuat kawan, yang nak menjatuhkan bagai tu ramailah- EHEM2).

apa2 pun mek seronok, walaupun kat passport tu tertera

*PAS LAWATAN SOSIAL*
*HANYA UNTUK 6 BULAN SAHAJA*

yelah mek paham, mek bukan lagi warganegara negara inie lagi, but i say i am proud that i am from Malaysia. wah patriotisma gituh. bley...

KB mek katanyer

Ada KB(kawan baik) mek dalam facebook tanya "tak kepoh ke kat Malaysia itew?, wah mek selamba jawab- tak da per2 pun, kami dok pi jalan makan2 kat pasar seni, bukit bintang segala, ramai jer orang, westerner dok jalan segala.

Agak mek kan "depa kata apa aku peduli!" lu punya pasal laaa...

hah jilat serupa hanjeng *jgn marah!!!

Minggu depan kami akan balik Penang, wah tak sabar, macam iniew bukan jadinyer nak menulis buku, mek mengisi perut yang ada dengan makanan yang maha lazat, ko jangan tanya laki mek itew, Cik Abang Steve ni pandai makan kari mamak tau, sampai jilat2 pingan.

matilah ponen gendut

Memalukan aku jer masa makan kat kedai mamak dekap pasar seni itew, kari mamak lagi sedap dari kari aku masak kat rumah, katanyer. kawin jer lah dengan mamak tu bang, mek tak heran
*wahh nagess babi*

Nantilah nak menghapdep blog lagi, ni kawan2 sekerja kat sunway & monash belum jumpa nii, *matila cenderahati katanya* depa ingat key chain tu murah kot, abis2 made in china *celaka kan ko bayar 10dolor for shit*

oklah arios amigos, for international reader,no translation of the above, to summarize everything, we have arrived safely in malaysia, weather is so swell, foods is heavens everywhere, you are safe to go anywhere in malaysia despite the rumors saying an attack over the churches and mosques. I cannot see any of those...

4th episode -Gay Finances in a str8 world: Keys to succesful money management

financial strategy is the way

Where and how do we begin to formulate a work able financial strategy? Following are some practical steps to consider.

The first step in designing a personal spending plan—a budget —is to determine your net worth. In other words , find out your overall financial condition. Begin with a list of your assets: possessions (and their fair market value) that you own and could sell.

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Then make a list of your debts: the amounts you owe to creditors (banks , mortgage companies, stores , credit cards and the like) .

Subtract your total indebtedness (the total of your debt list) from your assets (the total monetary value of your asset list) and you have your net worth: a summary of your financial condition.

If the combination of your assets and debts is a positive number,you have a positive net worth. If it is a negative number, you are in debt.

If you have a significant amount of debt , regardless of your net worth , you need to prepare and follow a budget that will help you improve your financial picture.

After determining your overall financial condition, the second step is to analyze your monthly cash flow. This will show you which direction you are headed—whether you are accumulating money, holding steady or going further in debt. You can do this by examining your monthly income and expenses.

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If you have money left over at the end of the month after pay in all your expenses (including housing, food, clothing, utilities , transportation , insurance, taxes and recreation) , your net worth is increasing, and you should have money to save or invest.

pretty boy can be expensive!!!

Here are a few things to consider about some typical expenses:

Education
One of the first issues to consider in a financial plan is education Although obtaining a college degree or certification in a particular trade costs money, this expense is almost always one of the best investments we can make. On average, people with higher education and market able job skills consistently earn more money.

Managing debt
Going into debt is generally not a good idea. “ The borrower is servant to the lender”. The difficulty with debt is that , in addition to paying back the principal (the amount borrowe d ) , we also have to pay interest on the outstanding balance.

Over the course of a typical 30-year loan for a house, for instance, the borrower pays more than double the purchase price of the house, with the additional money going to pay the interest on the loan.

Be cautious before committing yo u rself to any debt. Debts we cannot immediately repay have a way of compounding our financial problems.
Buying a house
In addition to costs associated with buying a house, such as a down payment (often 10 or 20 percent of the purchase price) and mortgage fees , you should also consider maintenance costs and taxes.

Other factors you should consider when purchasing a house are the local market and the location.

Transportation
Owning an automobile is a wonderful convenience, but it can consume large portion of any household or personal budget. Considering the costs of fuel, insurance, repairs and car payments , if you cannot purchase a vehicle outright automobile expenses can quickly add up to a significant amount.

Because of these costs, using public transportation (buses,trains, etc.) may be a better choice. Although not as convenient, this option is generally less expensive.

Food
The cost of food is a significant portion of a household budget. In general ,purchasing basic commodities in bulk and preparing meals at home is cheaper than buying highly processed items and eating out at restaurants.

Clothing
Everyone must have clothes , yet this area also provides opportunities for economy. A planned wardrobe vs. impulsive buying is much easier on clothing budgets. Purchasing good - quality but traditionally styled, clothing will often be the most economical approach in the long run .

Insurance
Many types of insurance are available today — life, home, automobile and health.Since a wide variety of insurance is available, we have to consider our individual circumstances in making decisions about the kinds and levels of insurance we need.

Savings
Last but not least, let’s consider savings. Although savings are often considered a luxury or afterthought, they should be included in every household budget. The reason is simple:

Emergencies and unexpected expenses will always arise. When we have savings to cushion the blow, the effects of these surprises are not as devastating. From this perspective, saving is simply delayed spending.

wait for me !!! darling

If you are not meeting your expenses , you need to make adjustments so you can pay your bills. Next episode in What with adjusting your bills?