Is Your Men aka Boyfriend aka Husband Really In Love With You?
But then, how do you know if your boy love . . . your boyfriend's love . . . is true love?
No doubt, there is an avalanche of information on how to tell if your man's love is true love.
But honestly, many of those love sites are filled with nothing but theory.
I prefer to be realistic.
We're talking about your future here, you know. Anything short of realistic, down-to-earth practicable and doable approach is useless.
Enough of the grammar.
So, how do you tell if your boy love is genuine?
Hey, wait.
Has he really told you he loves you?
That is a good starting point.
Why?
Well, many boys think the man they're dating, their boyfriend, is in love with them without actually asking him. There have been cases when a
boy tells a boy he has been going out with for months, "
I didn't say I love you. I simply said I like you?"
So the guy leaves and the boy is heart broken.
But wait a minute. Is there any difference between 'likeness' and love? Is "I love you" the same thing as "I like you"?
Likeness is different from love.
When a man likes you it means he enjoys being with you because, perhaps, you have some things in common and he likes your carriage or approach to issues.
He likes the way you walk. He likes the way you smile. He likes the way you deal with people. He likes the fact that you're smart and intelligent.
But does he love you? Maybe, maybe not.
Why so?
Well, love is a deeper feeling. Love is deeper than likeness.
When your boyfriend loves you, he spends more time with you. He's anxious to be with you. He wants to spend his life with you. He feels guilty if he's with someone else. He's willing to sacrifice everything for you. His heart belongs to you.
Your boy love, your boyfriend love, is for you and you alone if he wants to spend his life with you despite your weaknesses or shortcomings.
A man who recognizes your weaknesses and decides to live with them loves you.
Question: How do you know your boy love is for you? How do you know your boyfriend loves you?
Answer: Ask him this simple question. "Do you love me?"
Let him say it. Do not assume your boy love is for you because he has been your boyfriend for four years or more.
Question: Why should you care that your boyfriend loves you or not?
Answer: Because love is the very essence of having a relationship.
Question: So how do you know your boyfriend loves you?
Answer: Test him.(you figure it out! ok)
Do not stake your life with a man unless you're absolutely sure he's your ideal man. Be absolutely sure he loves you. Be absolutely sure this boy love is for you and you alone.
Love is a natural thing. Opposites attract each other.
However, before you commit everything you've got to your boyfriend, make sure the boy love is genuine. Make sure he truly loves you.
p/s Another important thing to remember is that all men love oral sex. So What?
