"Vanity and pride are different things, though the words are often used synonymously. A person may be proud without being vain. Pride relates more to our opinion of ourselves, vanity to what we would have others think of us."

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

why interracial sex is sexy


In my recent blog, i've write an opening remark "interracial sex is very sexy" and Nik The Greek from UK is asking why?

To reply to dear Nik The Greek, Sexiness is actually all Mental. It's mostly, but not entirely, in the mind of the beholder and it's based on morality.

Basically, Sexiness involves the breaking of some major or minor moral code. Seeing a men in the nude is sexy where men normally dress. Seeing a men's underwear, boxer, spandex or thigh, is sexy since these are normally not supposed to be seen.

Kissing a lad just before puberty is sexy because this is usually illegal. Having sex with a married men is sexy because you know he is breaking his married vows. Lesbian are sexy to most men because women don't normally give each other full kiss on the lips.

Interracial sex is sexy because it used to be illegal. Sex with a nun/priest is sexy because it means they are breaking their vows to the Christ. and you can go right down your lists; when it comes to what turns men on, look at what moral code being broken.

and you said "mostly", it was in the mind. and what i say to you men "Sex should be part of love"
but you will denied it and leave sooner or later.


3 comments:

Mr. Urs said...

Never thought about it from that perspective. Thanks for broadening my horizon.

Nik_TheGreek said...

lol... thanks for that.
I didn't mean my last comment exactly like that, but I really do like your explanation / answer.
My question was mostly about why you were thinking of differences between fatal, lethal and deadly in comparison to (interracial) sex in the first place.
So, you thought that interracial sex is sexy, so much that it is / was considered lethal. From that point you somehow started wondering whether it was better described as deadly. Then, you started wondering about the differences between them? That was what I was asking…
I never denied interracial sex ever been sexy. I’m a fan…

Suf n Steve said...

lol... one word sorry.

this ex-and-old-professor somehow misinterpret the question.

anyhoos, yeah i did means that sex can be lethal and as much as deadlier to to a person depending on what rules he or she has invaded.

uhmm, as much as i can say, i am addicted to interracial sex...how? now i am ur fan too.hehehe